Friday, April 19, 2013

RIP Joe aka "the king"- A True Story of a True Dominatrix

This a true story about an event that happened recently that makes me proud of what I do. I always was proud of what I do because I love what I do, but it is moments like these that are priceless and only solidifies that I am on the right path in life. I was not going to write about it but I wanted to share with everyone to always follow your hearts and passions. Sometimes you have to take a leap of faith and see what follows.

Today I woke up to my normal routine a little on the tired side so decided why not go to the gym I’m already up anyway. So I go to the gym work out for a bit then come back home and walk my dog. Today is April 18th and a very good client of mine had his birthday on April 7th so I wanted to wish him a happy belated birthday. (I will refer to this person as Joe for a name to be used in this story.)

The last time I saw Joe was in January and when I got back to LA he said he needed some time to focus on a big project that he was working on and that he would not be able to see me on my next trip to NYC in March because there was a lot of loose ends he had to tie up. I said sure not a problem take care of what you have to I will be back in late April and we can celebrate my birthday and your birthday.

I called Joes number and the phone was  disconnected I had not been able to reach Joe in 3 months. After this call with the phone being disconnected  I was a bit concerned, something was not right I could feel it,  so I called the attendant in the building where Joe worked.  (He was very open and honest with where he worked and gave me all the numbers to  friends, contacts etc and everyone knew me. So I just want to make it clear I do not randomly call clients homes, where they work etc etc I am very respectful of someone’s privacy.) Trust, privacy, discretion, limits are always of the utmost importance.

When I make the call to the attendant I start to make chit chat ask how he is doing etc then I ask “Hey have you heard from Joe?” The attendant got a bit quiet and said “Im sorry to say but Joe is gone”. “What do you mean gone where did he go? Did he move offices? I don’t get it?” The attendant said no Joe has passed. Passed! Passed as in dead passed? What are you talking about when did he die? The attendant said he died 3 months ago. I was in disbelief I could not believe what I was hearing. I had just spoke to him 3 months ago what was going on. Then it all started to make sense to me.

Joe knew he was dying, he never told me that he was dying ……. but he was. I was aware that he had heart surgery over a year ago because I always ask clients if there are any health issues I should be aware of before playing. I saw Joe in January and he died a couple of weeks later in February. He knew that he only had a couple more weeks to live and that was why he said he could not see me in March…….it was because he was not going to live till then. He partially made up the story about the work project to spare my feelings and not have me worry about him. The last thing he told me was “I will see you soon, I am working on my kingdom where you will be at the throne as the Queen. Where everyone will serve the Queen and we will live free without a care in the world. You will always be my Queen.”

Until now I never really thought about those last words because Joe always talked like that so it was totally in character for him. Every morning while I walked my dog I would get a call from him all happy and jovial “Good morning how is the Queen! I hope you are having a lovely day I cant wait to see you, the days go by so slow when my Queen is not here”.

Joe was a very cheerful person, very loving and generous to everyone he met. Everyone in NYC knew him and spoke highly of him and who ever we met he would introduce me as the Queen. People would think he was funny so they would laugh at his funny personality. He lived to make people happy and put a smile on their face, it literally would pain him if there was something that he could not do to help someone that was near and dear to his heart. He would always show up everyday bringing me breakfast in the morning before he went to work, then after work he would show up with some little trinkets that he would be so happy to give me.

When Joe and I first met I knew that somehow we would play an important role in each others lives. However I did not know how important of a role. We had a lot in common, birthdays a week apart, ethnicity, various family names, likes, interests etc. I am very good at reading people and am often able to pick up on many things. Joe told me that he had been searching for that one person to make him happy for years and that when he found me he was the happiest guy in the world. Everyone of his friends had found their bits of happiness and that he thought he lost his a long time ago but now realized in finding me his search was over.

Joe had a significant other whom he talked about often and I would listen. Most of the time spent with Joe was listening to him talk and boy oh boy could he talk. His partner was a world renowned psychologist yet he could never talk to her. He could never express to her his deepest feelings and quirky things that made him happy. He said she would just look down on him and think he was crazy and try to help him “solve his issues”. He was never able to be himself or be happy around her, it was always a show and putting up a front. With me he was able to be open and express himself, a luxury he never had.

Joe always said he felt so comfortable with me and that I would make a great therapist. I thought that was funny but I am a therapist in my own way. Being non judgmental and open minded,  I give people the ability to be carefree, speak their mind, act in ways that set them free from every worry and care they have in the world, I give ultimate freedom. Freedom of the mind.  Even if it is just for a few moments, those few moments can mean an eternity to someone.

His last days spent on this earth were the happiest days of his life and I am humbled that I was given the opportunity to give this gift to him.  I can honestly say I gave him peace within himself a solace that he had been searching for years for.

I write this with a tear in my eye………this is why I do what I do, I love being a Dominatrix for the healing it brings, for the compassion, understanding that it takes to make a person feel whole and complete. BDSM as a whole is not about beating someone, it is not about pain, being a bitch, protocol, rules, or punishment (in some cases those things might be part of the particular play scene) . It is about a connection……a bond, trust, empathy and understanding. I always ask myself why did this person choose me out of anyone else and when we play I listen to everything. I listen to what they say and what they don’t say, I listen to their body, to their breathing to their eyes, to the beat of their hearts. For that moment of play that person is the most important person in the world to me because an exchange of the minds is taking place which is a delicate dance.

He had been building his kingdom this whole time we had known each other. I was just the last piece of his puzzle that he had been looking for. It took him awhile but he found it. Joes last words could not have rung truer “I am working on my kingdom where you will be at the throne as the Queen….we will live free without a care in the world. You will always be my Queen.”

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Daytime Playtime BDSM Play Party, Mo., 4/22, Irongate Studios, LA

Date & Time: Monday, April 22, 2013 ·12:00 PM – 2:00 PM
(Extended play Playtime 2-?)

Location: IRONGATE STUDIOS, 7019 Reseda Blvd, Reseda CA 91335
Dress code: jockstrap

Description:

THE ANGELS OF DOMINATION PRESENT
"DAYTIME PLAYTIME"
FETISH PLAY PARTY
PERVERSION AT ITS FINEST

Mistress Lexine the owner of IRONGATE STUDIOS presents DAYTIME PLAYTIME
……Perversion at its finest, on every other Monday afternoon for TWO HOURS of
non-stop Play. Join us for a day of playing hookie from work, Delightful
Decadence and Fantasy Fun. There is no sitting around or chatting at this event,
you become ours as soon as you enter our door. Play is GUARANTEED, it is not
optional, it's REQUIRED!!!

Submissives…prepare to submit, slaves……prepare to surrender! Whatever your
fetish is, it will take place at this party and there are several eager Dommes
who cant wait to play with you! Humiliation on all levels, spanking, flogging,
T&D, sensual submission, smothering, bondage………the list is endless. So don't
miss out on this DAY play party like no other around. There are new Dommes every
month so feel free to call for info or see who our special guests will be.

The donation for this special event is $150 or ($135 for IRONGATE STUDIOS
members) and includes refreshments. EXTENDED PLAY IS ONLY $20 PER 10 MINUTES.

CHECK OUT OUR LOS ANGELES DUNGEON WEBSITE WWW.IRONGATESTUDIOSSFV.COM TO SEE ALL
THE ANGELS. UPDATES AND NEW PICTURES ARE DONE WEEKLY

DAYTIME PLAYTIME is held every other Monday at IRONGATE STUDIOS ,alternating
with our four hour Monday afternoon S.W.A.T./Fetish Spank and Worship parties.
On Thursdays, evening versions of our Monday parties are held. We have
something for everyone, so don't be shy.

IRONGATE STUDIOS is a newly remodeled high end private and discreet play space
right off the 101 freeway just minutes from Los Angeles and Burbank Airports.
Our dungeon is fully equipped and air conditioned and provides all the amenities
needed for your optimal fetish experience. Each room is designed with exquisite
detail including our newest SHOWER Room……yes a whole shower room for play and
clean up

PRIVATE PLAY OR PUBLIC PLAY AVAILABLE DEPENDING ON YOUR COMFORT LEVEL
So bring your stamina you will need all your energy! EXTENDED PLAY!!!!!!! At the
end of the party you can continue your fun if you ask nicely. (please inquiry
about this option)

RSVP IS A MUST FOR ENTRY so EMAIL your RSVP now to Mistress Lexine at
info @ irongatestudiossfv.com or mistresslexine @ yahoo.com or by calling me at 818-404-2323
If you are interested in becoming a member to IRONGATE STUDIOS and want to know
the benefits of being an exclusive VIP member give me a call or email.

Please bring photo ID.
See you there....

Kinkfully yours,
Mistress Lexine
www.irongatestudiossfv.com

Sunday, April 7, 2013

S.W.A.T. Spank/ Worship Fetish Party 4/18, Irongate Studios, LA

"RSVP Required"


Date & Time: Thursday, April 18, 2013 · 8:00 PM –12:00 AM
Location: IRONGATE STUDIOS, 7019 Reseda Blvd, Reseda CA 91335
Dress Code: Casual

Cost: $40 at the door, $35 in advance (more details below).

THE ANGELS OF DOMINATION PRESENT:

"S.W.A.T. FETISH"
(A Party of SPANKING, WORSHIPPING, ASS,TEASE & DENIAL)

THE HOTTEST MULTI SOCIAL BDSM PARTY IN LOS ANGELES, BROUGHT TO YOU BY IRONGATE STUDIOS, ONE OF LA'S LONGEST STANDING PRIVATE DUNGEONS.

The multi social atmosphere is open to a mix of fetishes for Dommes, Sub, Switches and Masters that make up for a night of kinky fun aimed towards bottoms in need of a good spanking, Goddesses that need to be worshipped and of course naughty men that deserve to be teased and humiliated.

CHECK OUT OUR LOS ANGELES DUNGEON WEBSITE WWW.IRONGATESTUDIOSSFV.COM TO SEE ALL THE ANGELS. UPDATES AND NEW PICTURES ARE DONE WEEKLY

THE S.W.A.T. SPANK/WORSHIP FETISH PARTY is held every other Thursday evening at IRONGATE STUDIOS, alternating with our two-hour continuous mandatory play EVENING SLAVE PIT PLAY PARTY. On Mondays, afternoon versions of our Thursday parties are held. We have something for everyone, so don't be shy.

Join us no matter what your dirty fetish is…..all of us heavy handed Goddesses and submissive girls want you to come , play and have fun. You would desire to serve and worship us and submit your wildest fantasies into a reality.

Don't miss this opportunity to play with any of our beautiful Angels of Domination in mini-sessions at the party for a tribute of only $20.00 per ten minutes worth of play.

-Foot worship -Ass worship -Sensual tease play
-Humiliation -Sissy toy worship -Smothering
-Spanking -Submissive spanking -Boot worship
-Toilet -Tickle torture -CBT and more……..

IRONGATE STUDIOS: fully-equipped, newly remodeled, air-conditioned private dungeon located in the San Fernando Valley Reseda Ca. Just minutes from Burbank Airport and 30 min from L.A.X. IRONGATE STUDIOS is safe and discreet. We have plenty of parking in the front or back of building.

DOOR PAY ADMISSION $40
REGISTER at Info@..., mistresslexine@..., or by calling
Mistress Lexine at 818-404-2323.

DISCOUNTED PREPAID ADMISSION
ONLY $35 PREPAID AT OUR ONLINE STORE AT OUR WEBSITE (irongatestudiossfv.com).

NOTE: No sexual or illegal activities will take place or be tolerated. Failure to follow the rules will result in immediate expulsion from the facility,

This is a color coded party. Which means you will be given a colored wrist band based on your role as either a Domme, Sub or Switch. Wristbands will determine a particular fetish or interest, the coding makes for a fun ice breaker.

DOMMES AND MODELS INTERESTED IN ATTENDING. PLEASE CONTACT MISTRESS LEXINE AT info@... for the guest list. Please include a photo of
yourself, a brief bio and contact information so we can post you on our websites to see who is coming and know that you will be there.

If you are interested in becoming a member of Irongate Studios please contact or email me for information about VIP Memberships and not required.

Hope to see you there,

Mistress Lexine
www.irongatestudiossfv.com

Working Mans Daytime Fetish Play Party Mo. 4/15, Irongate Studios, LA

RSVP Required.

Date & Time: Monday, April 15, 2013 ·12:00 PM – 4:00 PM  
Location: IRONGATE STUDIOS, 7019 Reseda Blvd, Reseda CA 91335
Cost: $40 at the door, $35 in advance and for Irongate members.
Dress code: casual

Description:

THE ANGELS OF DOMINATION
 PRESENT

THE WORKING MANS
 DAYTIME FETISH PLAY PARTY

BROUGHT TO YOU BY IRONGATE STUDIOS ONE OF LA’S LONGEST
 STANDING PRIVATE DUNGEONS

Join us for a midday spanking or smothering.
 Break away from the boring workday
 and spend time with our lovely Goddesses and Switches.

I cant imagine a better way to enjoy your lunch hour or better yet completely play hooky and spend the day with us. Don’t keep us waiting we have plenty of assignments for you naughty boys who need some punishing for not following orders.

We are introducing Fetish Play Parties to daytime hours so that you can indulge in some afternoon fetish delights before you have to head home. Shhhh its our little secret...bottoms up!

CHECK OUT OUR LOS ANGELES DUNGEON WEBSITE WWW.IRONGATESTUDIOSSFV.COM TO SEE ALL THE ANGELS. UPDATES AND NEW PICTURES ARE DONE WEEKLY

Join us no matter what your dirty fetish is…..all of us heavy handed Goddesses and submissive girls want you to come and play. You would desire to serve and worship us and submit your wildest fantasies into a reality.

-Foot worship -Ass worship -Sensual tease play
 -Humiliation -Sissy toy worship -Smothering
 -Spanking -Submissive spanking -Boot worship
 -Toilet -Tickle torture -CBT and more…….

THE WORKING MAN'S DAYTIME (S.W.A.T.)FETISH PLAY PARTY is held every other Monday at IRONGATE STUDIOS ,alternating with our two-hour continuous mandatory play DAYTIME PLAYTIME BDSM PLAY PARTY.  On Thursdays, evening versions of our Monday parties are held. We have something for everyone, so don't be shy.

IRONGATE STUDIOS: fully-equipped, newly remodeled, air-conditioned private dungeon located in the San Fernando Valley Reseda Ca. Just minutes from Burbank Airport and 30 min from L.A.X. IRONGATE STUDIOS is safe and discreet.  We have plenty of parking in the front or back of building.

DOOR PAY ADMISSION $40
REGISTER at irongatestudiossfv@gmail.com, mistresslexine@yahoo.com, or by calling Mistress Lexine @ 818-404-2323.  RSVP is a must for entrance to the party.

DISCOUNTED PREPAID ADMISSION
ONLY $35 PREPAID at the online store section of our website:
irongatestudiossfv.com

NOTE: No sexual or illegal activities will take place or be tolerated. Failure to follow the rules will result in immediate removal from facility,

This is a color coded party. Which means you will be given a colored wrist band based on your role as either a Domme, Sub or Switch. Wristbands will determine a particular fetish or interest, the coding makes for a fun ice breaker.

DOMMES AND MODELS INTERESTED IN ATTENDING
 CONTACT MISTRESS LEXINE AT mistresslexine@yahoo.com for the guest list. Please include a photo of yourself, a brief bio and contact information so we can post you on our websites to see who is coming and know that you will be there.

Beverages and refreshments are available.

If you are interested in becoming a member of Irongate Studios please contact or email me for information about VIP Memberships and not required.

Hope to see you there,
Mistress Lexine
www.irongatestudiossfv.com

S.N.A.C.K. Spank and Worship Play Party Thursday 4/11 Los Angeles

"RSVP Required”

Date & Time: Thursday, April 11, 2013 ·10:00 PM – 1:00 AM  
Location: IRONGATE STUDIOS, 7019 Reseda Blvd, Reseda CA 91335.
Dress code: casual

Cost: $40 at the door, $35 in advance and for Irongate members.  Free to those attending immediately preceding evening Slave Pit party.
(Pre-payment for the S.N.A.C.K. party may br made at the online store section of our website:irongatestudiossfv.com.)  

Description:

ANGELS OF DOMINATION
 PRESENTS

“S.N.A.C.K”
A Party of
Spanking, Nipple torture, Ass, Cbt, Kicking
(Held every other Thursday, immediately following our evening SLAVE PIT play event which runs from 8:00pm.-10:00pm. on alternating weeks with our Thursday Evening S.W.A.T. Spank/Worship fetish parties)

Everyone likes a S.N.A.C.K. a delectable little treat to feast upon provided by our Angels of Domination. S.N.A.C.K. is a party that gives you a chance to experience our lovely Angels after our SLAVE PIT PARTY.

CHECK OUT OUR LOS ANGELES DUNGEON WEBSITE WWW.IRONGATESTUDIOSSFV.COM TO SEE ALL THE ANGELS. UPDATES AND NEW PICTURES ARE DONE WEEKLY

Join us no matter what your dirty fetish is…..all of us heavy handed Goddesses and submissive girls want you to come and play. You would desire to serve and worship us and submit your wildest fantasies into a reality. Don’t miss this opportunity only $20 per 10 minutes.

-Foot worship -Ass worship -Sensual tease play
 -Humiliation -Sissy toy worship -Smothering
 -Spanking -Submissive spanking -Boot worship
 -Toilet -Tickle torture -CBT and more……..

IRONGATE STUDIOS: fully-equipped, newly remodeled, air-conditioned private dungeon located in the San Fernando Valley Reseda Ca. Just minutes from Burbank Airport and 30 min from L.A.X. IRONGATE STUDIOS is safe and discreet. We have plenty of parking in the front or back of building. Beverages and refreshments are available.

DOUBLE TROUBLE………Purchase a ticket to the evening's immediately preceding SLAVE PIT Party and receive a complimentary entry to stay for a S.N.A.C.K.

REGISTER at info@irongatetudiossfv.com or mistresslecine@yahoo.com
You may also call Mistress Lexine at 818-404-2323 to RSVP

NOTE: No sexual or illegal activities will take place or be tolerated. Failure to follow the rules will result in immediate removal of facility,

This is a color coded party. Which means you will be given a colored wrist band based on your role as either a Domme, Sub or Switch. Wristbands will determine a particular fetish or interest, the coding makes for a fun ice breaker.

DOMMES AND MODELS INTERESTED IN ATTENDING
CONTACT MISTRESS LEXINE at info@irongatestudiossfv.com for the guest list. Please include a photo of yourself, a brief bio and contact information so we can post you on our websites to see who is coming and know that you will be there.

If you are interested in becoming a member of Irongate Studios please contact or email me for information about VIP Memberships.

Hope to see you there,
Mistress Lexine
www.irongatestudiossfv.com

SLAVE PIT BDSM Play Party THURSDAY 4/11 Los Angeles

“ RSVP Required”

Date & Time: Thursday, April 11, 2013 · 8:00 PM –10:00 PM  
Location:  IRONGATE STUDIOS, 7019 Reseda Blvd, Reseda CA 91335
Dress code: Jockstrap

Description:

THE ANGELS OF DOMINATION PRESENT

“THE SLAVE PIT”
 PERVERSION AT ITS FINEST

Mistress Lexine the owner of IRONGATE STUDIOS presents THE SLAVE PIT……Perversion at its finest, on every other Thursday night for TWO HOURS of non-stop Play, ! Join us for a Night of Delightful Decadence and Fantasy Fun. There is no sitting around or chatting on this night, you become ours as soon as you enter our door. Play is GUARANTEED, it is not optional, it's REQUIRED!!!

Submissives….prepare to submit, slaves……prepare to surrender! Whatever your fetish is, it will take place at this party and there are several eager Dommes who cant wait to play with you! Humiliation on all levels, spanking, flogging, T&D, sensual submission, smothering, bondage………the list is endless. So don’t miss out on this play party like no other around. There are new Dommes every month so feel free to call for info or see who our special guests will be.

CHECK OUT OUR LOS ANGELES DUNGEON WEBSITE WWW.IRONGATESTUDIOSSFV.COM TO SEE ALL THE ANGELS. UPDATES AND NEW PICTURES ARE DONE WEEKLY

THE SLAVE PIT is held every other Thursday evening at IRONGATE STUDIOS, alternating with our four hour Thursday evening S.W.A.T./ Fetish Spank and Worship parties.  On Mondays, afternoon versions of our Thurday parties are held. We have something for everyone, so don't be shy.

IRONGATE STUDIOS is a newly remodeled high end private and discreet play space right off the 101 freeway just minutes from Los Angeles and Burbank Airports. Our dungeon is fully equipped and air conditioned and provides all the amenities needed for your optimal fetish experience. Each room is designed with exquisite detail including our newest SHOWER Room……yes a whole shower room for play and clean up

PRIVATE PLAY OR PUBLIC PLAY AVAILABLE DEPENDING ON YOUR COMFORT LEVEL

So bring your stamina you will need all your energy!

The donation for this special event is $150 or ($135 for IRONGATE STUDIOS members) and includes refreshments.  RSVP IS A MUST FOR ENTRY so EMAIL your RSVP now to Mistress Lexine at Info@Irongatestudiossfv.com.   You may also RSVP @mistresslexine@yahoo.com or by calling me at 818-404-2323.

DOUBLE TROUBLE………Purchase a ticket to the evenings SLAVE PIT Party and receive a complimentary entry to stay for the S.N.A.C.K. Spank and Worship Play Event taking place directly AFTER Slave Pit from 10pm-1am

If you are interested in becoming a member to IRONGATE STUDIOS and want to know the benefits of being an exclusive VIP member give me a call or email.

Please bring photo ID.
See you there....

Mistress Lexine
www.irongatestudiossfv.com

Daytime Playtime BDSM Play Party, Mo., 4/8, Irongate Studios, LA

Date & Time: Monday, April 08, 2013 ·12:00 PM – 2:00 PM
(Extended play Playtime 2-?)
  
Location: IRONGATE STUDIOS, 7019 Reseda Blvd, Reseda CA 91335
Dress code: jockstrap
Description:
THE ANGELS OF DOMINATION PRESENT

“DAYTIME PLAYTIME”
 FETISH PLAY PARTY
 PERVERSION AT ITS FINEST

Mistress Lexine the owner of IRONGATE STUDIOS presents DAYTIME PLAYTIME ……Perversion at its finest, on every other Monday afternoon  for TWO HOURS of non-stop Play.  Join us for a day of playing hookie from work, Delightful Decadence and Fantasy Fun. There is no sitting around or chatting at this event, you become ours as soon as you enter our door. Play is GUARANTEED, it is not optional, it's REQUIRED!!!

Submissives…prepare to submit, slaves……prepare to surrender! Whatever your fetish is, it will take place at this party and there are several eager Dommes who cant wait to play with you! Humiliation on all levels, spanking, flogging, T&D, sensual submission, smothering, bondage………the list is endless. So don’t miss out on this DAY play party like no other around. There are new Dommes every month so feel free to call for info or see who our special guests will be.
The donation for this special event is $150 or ($135 for IRONGATE STUDIOS members) and includes refreshments. EXTENDED PLAY IS ONLY $20 PER 10 MINUTES.

CHECK OUT OUR LOS ANGELES DUNGEON WEBSITE WWW.IRONGATESTUDIOSSFV.COM TO SEE ALL THE ANGELS. UPDATES AND NEW PICTURES ARE DONE WEEKLY

DAYTIME PLAYTIME is held every other Monday at IRONGATE STUDIOS ,alternating with our four hour Monday afternoon S.W.A.T./Fetish Spank and Worship parties.  On Thursdays, evening versions of our Monday parties are held.  We have something for everyone, so don’t be shy.

IRONGATE STUDIOS is a newly remodeled high end private and discreet play space right off the 101 freeway just minutes from Los Angeles and Burbank Airports. Our dungeon is fully equipped and air conditioned and provides all the amenities needed for your optimal fetish experience. Each room is designed with exquisite detail including our newest SHOWER Room……yes a whole shower room for play and clean up

PRIVATE PLAY OR PUBLIC PLAY AVAILABLE DEPENDING ON YOUR COMFORT LEVEL

So bring your stamina you will need all your energy! EXTENDED PLAY!!!!!!! At the end of the party you can continue your fun if you ask nicely. (please inquiry about this option)

RSVP IS A MUST FOR ENTRY so EMAIL your RSVP now to Mistress Lexine at info@irongatestudiossfv.com

If you are interested in becoming a member to IRONGATE STUDIOS and want to know the benefits of being an exclusive VIP member give me a call or email.

Please bring photo ID.
See you there....
www.irongatestudiossfv.com